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smart bunny
Fully Grown Corn
United Kingdom
5091 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 10:38:23
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Oh no that's awful, what a total b*tch, I feel so sorry for you
It may be worth putting a pic up on here of your snake for people to see? |
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Mort13
Fully Grown Corn
United Kingdom
5599 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 15:00:37
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Ah no hun,thats awful. Your snakes do not affect her in the slightest as she doesn't come your house. Does she not realise she's hurting her son with this behaviour too bearing in mind how much he likes them. Hope she falls of her broomstick! |
3.1.0 Corn snakes, 1.0.0 T-Albino Cape House Snake, 0.1.0 Western Hognose, 1.0.0 MBK, 0.1.0 Childrens Python, 1.0.0 Nicaraguan Dwarf Boas 0.0.1 Occelated Skink, 1.0.0 Leopard Gecko, 1.0.3 Tarantulas, 0.0.2 Damon diadema 1.0.0 C0ckatiel,
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lupi lou
Fully Grown Corn
United Kingdom
3670 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 17:59:44
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so sorry that is horrible that you've had to give in to that evil hateful woman! hope you find a home for him |
1.0.1 Corns 0.1.0 Dog: springer 1.0.0 Horse 0.4.0 Gerbils 2.2.0 Leopard gecko 0.2.0 Cave gecko |
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tk72
Hatchling
United Kingdom
494 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 19:00:38
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If you do have to rehome Midget could any from the site do it on a short term basis. As in when you have space for another one dont wanna say when one passes on but there you go. Then they could pass him back to you. Know it would be a bit of a pain for some people but if anyone has space maybe they could take him in for you. If someone does rehome him for good though does he come with anything and do you want some money or possibly a donation for an animal charity that you know of. Hope you get it sorted out. |
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Becky_Ben
Hatchling
United Kingdom
160 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 19:43:03
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Ill post a pic of him up in the snake pics section, some body mentioned about the shed idea, i asked would it make a difference to my friend if her dogs lived out side and they said no 10 animals per house hold in the garden or house i was thinking of saying that to them that the dogs lived out side and so did the guineas but it wouldnt make a difference, plus i currently have 14 animals and only the cat is really old the others are relativley young, he wouldnt come with any thing as he is in a viv in the viv stack currently as he loves his big spaces even though its not reccomended he uses every inch of it :) his hides etc would end up being used for my other reptiles too unfortuntley as i foster the odd reptile for a charity i work with (now snakes are off my option list :( , a really good home is most important for me that is going to spoil him rotten like i do (if that possible) lol so just asking for a small amount for him to ensure he doesnt go to free bee hunters that would just sell him on really, im in leigh lancashire and ive put an add up for him on this page but no where else as i want him going to some one i can stay in contact with if possible to see how he is getting along and if your on this site your passionate about your snakes like i am :) x |
1 x collie, 1 x mastiff, 1 x ragdoll cat, 2 x guinea pigs, 1 x leopard tortoise, 1 x rat, 1 x Bearded Dragon, 1 x sheep, 2 x corn snakes,1 bosc, 3 leopard gecko, 1 crested gecko, 1 x fiance, 1 x 3yr old step son = My Ark |
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scottishbluebird
it is all my fault
United Kingdom
8403 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 19:56:13
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So so sorry, i would have gladly have taken some in with the hopes of them going back to you, sadly i am too far away |
0.1.0 Corn - Kellogs 1.0.0 Hognose - Storm 0.1.0 Staffy - Lyla 1.0.0 Spaffy(staffy x springer)-Spyro 1.0.0 Ferret - Peanut R.I.P 0.1.0 Crestie - Fudge. Wish List - Pygmy hedgehog. Tropiocolotes |
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claire_daz
Hatchling
United Kingdom
412 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 19:58:37
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becky ive just emailed you |
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claire_daz
Hatchling
United Kingdom
412 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 20:00:43
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please text me i have added my number in the email |
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Becky_Ben
Hatchling
United Kingdom
160 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 20:46:58
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okay ill check my email and thanks scottish for your consideration |
1 x collie, 1 x mastiff, 1 x ragdoll cat, 2 x guinea pigs, 1 x leopard tortoise, 1 x rat, 1 x Bearded Dragon, 1 x sheep, 2 x corn snakes,1 bosc, 3 leopard gecko, 1 crested gecko, 1 x fiance, 1 x 3yr old step son = My Ark |
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Becky_Ben
Hatchling
United Kingdom
160 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 20:49:16
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I have no email in inbox or junk :( its bextorzanimals@hotmail.com |
1 x collie, 1 x mastiff, 1 x ragdoll cat, 2 x guinea pigs, 1 x leopard tortoise, 1 x rat, 1 x Bearded Dragon, 1 x sheep, 2 x corn snakes,1 bosc, 3 leopard gecko, 1 crested gecko, 1 x fiance, 1 x 3yr old step son = My Ark |
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claire_daz
Hatchling
United Kingdom
412 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 21:09:24
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i have resent email to your email |
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Becky_Ben
Hatchling
United Kingdom
160 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 21:22:21
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Ive text you hun thank you :) |
1 x collie, 1 x mastiff, 1 x ragdoll cat, 2 x guinea pigs, 1 x leopard tortoise, 1 x rat, 1 x Bearded Dragon, 1 x sheep, 2 x corn snakes,1 bosc, 3 leopard gecko, 1 crested gecko, 1 x fiance, 1 x 3yr old step son = My Ark |
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Becky_Ben
Hatchling
United Kingdom
160 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 21:33:04
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Looks like midget is awaiting pick up from claire and daz next saturday :) Thank you all so much for your support :D xxx |
1 x collie, 1 x mastiff, 1 x ragdoll cat, 2 x guinea pigs, 1 x leopard tortoise, 1 x rat, 1 x Bearded Dragon, 1 x sheep, 2 x corn snakes,1 bosc, 3 leopard gecko, 1 crested gecko, 1 x fiance, 1 x 3yr old step son = My Ark |
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claire_daz
Hatchling
United Kingdom
412 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 21:49:18
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lol i just been on google maps to plot our route thank god its mothers day the next day |
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Sta~ple
qeeun speler
United Kingdom
6129 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 22:02:27
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I'm sorry :( I hope you can get that evil cow back somehow though. |
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Kehhlyr
ǝʞɐɔ sǝʌoן
United Kingdom
8173 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 22:39:06
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Have only skimmed through the first page of this thread, but usually pets are defined as "animals that could cause damage or flea infestation to a property". By rights the council can say absolutely nothing about them, they arenot classed as pets because they are contained in tanks, like fish!! Fish do not come under the same rule for pets as furries do.
In regards the ex telling social services, then let her. Social services will visit to confirm that there is no danger to the child, and she'll have no leg to stand on. We had a similar issue a couple years back when we had a rottweiler and my grandaughter used to live with us, they came round saw that the dog and we were safe, if you try to avoid the visits they will assume the worst and that you're trying to hide it. Quite simply as someone else has said, hit it head on, if need be, YOU invite social services round to confirm that it's a safe environment for the child, you'd be surprised at how nice they are really if you don't try to avoid things. Then get them to confirm in writing that it's a safe environment and stuff that right up the ex's backside with a nice bow tied round it made of barbed wire. |
-=Kehhlyr - The Resident Loon
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lotabob
Fully Grown Corn
United Kingdom
4334 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 23:21:39
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quote: Originally posted by Kehhlyr
Have only skimmed through the first page of this thread, but usually pets are defined as "animals that could cause damage or flea infestation to a property". By rights the council can say absolutely nothing about them, they arenot classed as pets because they are contained in tanks, like fish!! Fish do not come under the same rule for pets as furries do.
In regards the ex telling social services, then let her. Social services will visit to confirm that there is no danger to the child, and she'll have no leg to stand on. We had a similar issue a couple years back when we had a rottweiler and my grandaughter used to live with us, they came round saw that the dog and we were safe, if you try to avoid the visits they will assume the worst and that you're trying to hide it. Quite simply as someone else has said, hit it head on, if need be, YOU invite social services round to confirm that it's a safe environment for the child, you'd be surprised at how nice they are really if you don't try to avoid things. Then get them to confirm in writing that it's a safe environment and stuff that right up the ex's backside with a nice bow tied round it made of barbed wire.
Couldn't have said it better, you are not breaking any rules keeping a few snakes, not the councils tenancy rules, not the court order (I'm sure there won't be a snake and other animals the mother is frightened of clause in there) so absolutely call her bluff, it sounds like if you've had to get a court order that she is just being difficult and this is just an excuse to continue that pattern of behaviour. Tell her to call whoever she wishes to call as they will find not a scrap of a reason to change any arrangements already in place.
Good luck and I hope you sort this without having to give up everything you love. |
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mikeyd_26
Yearling
United Kingdom
716 Posts |
Posted - 08/03/2012 : 23:47:21
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totally agree with K and lotabob ^^^ and although a corn is obviously a snake it is totally harmless what threat could it possibly be? theres always the hide him option? dont give up yet :) |
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smart bunny
Fully Grown Corn
United Kingdom
5091 Posts |
Posted - 09/03/2012 : 09:55:34
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Um guys, she's already rehomed one snake and the other is going to Claire Daz.
So sorry to read this, but glad someone from the forum has taken him on. I must admit I was tempted as I saw you were in Leigh - but I thought that was Leigh-on-Sea in Essex lol!! Lancashire is too far!! Not a problem now though as you have sorted it. So sorry it ended this way though, I hope your partner appreciates your sacrifice! xx |
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claire_daz
Hatchling
United Kingdom
412 Posts |
Posted - 09/03/2012 : 10:10:08
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i've been and ordered his viv this morning and we gonna keep in touch with her lol snakey updates my oh was only saying on sunday that he thought the normal corns were very pretty so when becky said she needed help i only had to memtion midget and he was all for it . i was well happy as i've been dropping hints for the last three weeks about having another snakey which he has been ignoring lol |
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