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My best mate Kate and my brother Matt have been seeing one another and he really likes kate alot but think she likes someone else now. Dont want to see either of them hurt nd that seen as i'm really close to both of them and would hate to have to pick a side seen as a member of family is involved but i cant help but think shes led him on :/ i know that its none of any of your problems but just really need some help bout wat i should do nd if i should tell Matt that i think she has found someone else or would this make everything worse?? :/ :( xx
sorry to waste peoples time as well if this sounds really daft to alot of youu :/ xx |
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would love to have a granite corn snake but unfortunately not allowed cuz mum hates snakes haha :P x
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stotty01
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:19:30
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this happened to me, my best mate liked my friend who treats my like a brother,
just tell him otherwise it will just be leading him on
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my aunties, bestfriends, hairdressers, friends boyfriend had a snake and it stretched out to measure him to eat him......true story.....
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:21:29
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| kk thanks but couldn't it make things worse nd that cuz hes been led on before nd it completely crushed him :/ xx |
Megg :) xxx
Creamsickle Corn Snake- Tangoo (Ginge) :)
would love to have a granite corn snake but unfortunately not allowed cuz mum hates snakes haha :P x
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stotty01
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:23:08
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| better to crush him in the shallow end not the deep end i guess |
my aunties, bestfriends, hairdressers, friends boyfriend had a snake and it stretched out to measure him to eat him......true story.....
1.0.0 tortoise
1.0.0 sinaloan milk snake
1.0.0 jack russel
0.1.0 anery corn medusa
1.0.0 snow corn abomninable
0.1.0 royal python priscilla
http://www.youtube.com/user/stotty01 dads youtube channel
Tail n scales, Linton, Cambs, CB21 4XN, Tel no 01223 893 508 http://www.tails-n-scales.co.uk/
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:28:54
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| yeah suppose your right on that one tbh lol :/ xx |
Megg :) xxx
Creamsickle Corn Snake- Tangoo (Ginge) :)
would love to have a granite corn snake but unfortunately not allowed cuz mum hates snakes haha :P x
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BurnedAtTheStake
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:29:47
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That's a bad one ... my gut feeling would be to say absolutely nothing, although I realise that may be hard.
I'm a newcomer here so I don't know if this is okay to say, but I think you're better discussing this problem with people (like us) who aren't involved, and airing your feelings here, while letting Matt and Kate work things out by themselves.
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:37:08
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| kk thanks alot :) xx |
Megg :) xxx
Creamsickle Corn Snake- Tangoo (Ginge) :)
would love to have a granite corn snake but unfortunately not allowed cuz mum hates snakes haha :P x
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BurnedAtTheStake
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:46:27
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Sorry, I typed that post while you and Stotty01 had already started discussing problem - don't want to seem as if I'd jumped in and disagreed just for the sake of it! Sorry again (me and my big mouth!) |
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:49:44
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| ahh noo dont worry cuz i wanted different opinions bout it :) xx |
Megg :) xxx
Creamsickle Corn Snake- Tangoo (Ginge) :)
would love to have a granite corn snake but unfortunately not allowed cuz mum hates snakes haha :P x
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:57:09
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| i would say speak to your mate about it, tell her if she does like someone else then to finish it with your bro or you'll tell him yourself.......itwould be better for him if it comes from her. |
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:59:48
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| yeahh cuz tbhh i bet if i did tell him then i would probably get the blame for everything nd lose both of them :/ xx |
Megg :) xxx
Creamsickle Corn Snake- Tangoo (Ginge) :)
would love to have a granite corn snake but unfortunately not allowed cuz mum hates snakes haha :P x
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 23:04:28
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| Thats usually what happens..... |
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 23:05:38
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| yupp :/ tell me bout it... |
Megg :) xxx
Creamsickle Corn Snake- Tangoo (Ginge) :)
would love to have a granite corn snake but unfortunately not allowed cuz mum hates snakes haha :P x
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lizzyd
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 23:19:23
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I agree with Whitedog...speak to your mate. Then be there for your brother if he needs you.
I have three brothers and a sister but we had a rule in our house. No dating each others mates. Cos if you do sooner or later you end up losing your friends.
Its a horrible situation to be in and i really hope it works out for you. x |
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 23:23:37
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| thanks nd yeahh my mum tried out that rule :/ wish she brought it back in lmaoo nd yeahh will doo cuz ive always been brought up so that in my eyes family does come first but its just a really horrible nd sticky situation to be in tbhh :/ xx |
Megg :) xxx
Creamsickle Corn Snake- Tangoo (Ginge) :)
would love to have a granite corn snake but unfortunately not allowed cuz mum hates snakes haha :P x
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luke1989
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 23:24:16
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| i agree too, if she is your mate, when you speak to her she should understand, just explain to her that you dont want anyone to get hurt or for there to be tension between the three of you in the future, i personally think the more you let it go on the harder it will be for you to confront anyone. |
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 23:30:25
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| yeahh :/ think your absolutely right tbh cuz in away it already felt awkward cuz its like best mate nd brother lol xx |
Megg :) xxx
Creamsickle Corn Snake- Tangoo (Ginge) :)
would love to have a granite corn snake but unfortunately not allowed cuz mum hates snakes haha :P x
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Posted - 16/08/2010 : 10:34:21
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| damn!! if onlyy i was old enough to go down the pub!! :P lmaoo xx |
Megg :) xxx
Creamsickle Corn Snake- Tangoo (Ginge) :)
would love to have a granite corn snake but unfortunately not allowed cuz mum hates snakes haha :P x
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Posted - 16/08/2010 : 14:12:23
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| the messenger always gets shot,get her to dump him |
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Posted - 16/08/2010 : 14:23:47
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i reckon say nowt and go down the pub for a few sherberts and let them sort their own mess out :D
Totally and utterly this^^^.
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