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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:15:03
My best mate Kate and my brother Matt have been seeing one another and he really likes kate alot but think she likes someone else now. Dont want to see either of them hurt nd that seen as i'm really close to both of them and would hate to have to pick a side seen as a member of family is involved but i cant help but think shes led him on :/ i know that its none of any of your problems but just really need some help bout wat i should do nd if i should tell Matt that i think she has found someone else or would this make everything worse?? :/ :( xx
sorry to waste peoples time as well if this sounds really daft to alot of youu :/ xx |
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Posted - 18/08/2010 : 11:53:42
yeah :/ i am definately goingg to stay out of it tho cuz dont want to lose either of them :/ xx |
| princessbroxy |
Posted - 18/08/2010 : 11:47:46
I agree stay out of it I lost 2 very good friend due to a situation like this 6 years ago and I still wish I said nothing as the messenger does get shot all the time even tho you think your doing the right thing. |
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Posted - 18/08/2010 : 11:40:16
yeahh its just that i hate people being hurt nd upset especially close relatives :/ nd thanks to everyone btw for the replies cuz it really did help alot lol :) x |
| mikerichards |
Posted - 16/08/2010 : 15:46:30
I say stay out of it, you won't get thanked for it. Your brother needs to fight his own battles, even if he loses.
It's always best to stay out of peoples relationships, especially family ones. |
| Kehhlyr |
Posted - 16/08/2010 : 14:23:47
quote:
Originally posted by eeji
i reckon say nowt and go down the pub for a few sherberts and let them sort their own mess out :D
Totally and utterly this^^^.
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| lee2308 |
Posted - 16/08/2010 : 14:12:23
the messenger always gets shot,get her to dump him |
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Posted - 16/08/2010 : 10:34:21
damn!! if onlyy i was old enough to go down the pub!! :P lmaoo xx |
| eeji |
Posted - 15/08/2010 : 17:51:05
i reckon say nowt and go down the pub for a few sherberts and let them sort their own mess out :D |
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 23:30:25
yeahh :/ think your absolutely right tbh cuz in away it already felt awkward cuz its like best mate nd brother lol xx |
| luke1989 |
Posted - 14/08/2010 : 23:24:16
i agree too, if she is your mate, when you speak to her she should understand, just explain to her that you dont want anyone to get hurt or for there to be tension between the three of you in the future, i personally think the more you let it go on the harder it will be for you to confront anyone. |
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 23:23:37
thanks nd yeahh my mum tried out that rule :/ wish she brought it back in lmaoo nd yeahh will doo cuz ive always been brought up so that in my eyes family does come first but its just a really horrible nd sticky situation to be in tbhh :/ xx |
| lizzyd |
Posted - 14/08/2010 : 23:19:23
I agree with Whitedog...speak to your mate. Then be there for your brother if he needs you.
I have three brothers and a sister but we had a rule in our house. No dating each others mates. Cos if you do sooner or later you end up losing your friends.
Its a horrible situation to be in and i really hope it works out for you. x |
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 23:05:38
yupp :/ tell me bout it... |
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 23:04:28
Thats usually what happens..... |
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:59:48
yeahh cuz tbhh i bet if i did tell him then i would probably get the blame for everything nd lose both of them :/ xx |
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:57:09
i would say speak to your mate about it, tell her if she does like someone else then to finish it with your bro or you'll tell him yourself.......itwould be better for him if it comes from her. |
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:49:44
ahh noo dont worry cuz i wanted different opinions bout it :) xx |
| BurnedAtTheStake |
Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:46:27
Sorry, I typed that post while you and Stotty01 had already started discussing problem - don't want to seem as if I'd jumped in and disagreed just for the sake of it! Sorry again (me and my big mouth!) |
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Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:37:08
kk thanks alot :) xx |
| BurnedAtTheStake |
Posted - 14/08/2010 : 22:29:47
That's a bad one ... my gut feeling would be to say absolutely nothing, although I realise that may be hard.
I'm a newcomer here so I don't know if this is okay to say, but I think you're better discussing this problem with people (like us) who aren't involved, and airing your feelings here, while letting Matt and Kate work things out by themselves.
All the best and good luck. |
